Good day Willow. “If u don’t remember it, what did it truly mean?” Great question with a possible haunting answer (if one is ever given.) I don’t know how most guys feel about remembering the things they said to a girl but I certainly do. I have dealt with a lot of that in the romantic poems on my blog. I know what people mean by the term “hopeless romantic” but I have never been much of a fan of this phrase. I think we use this phrase in positive and negative terms: 1) positive because no matter what happens we believe in the power, charm, and good things about romance (either one we have known or a potential one) and never want to give up; 2) negative because sometimes we have to give up on the romance we had or spent so much time, effort, prayer, etc, hoping for- never to see it happen. Maybe the questions become, “Can we still hope and love despite a hopeless romance?” I explored this in a recent poem, “Mesmerize.” (I am not trying to promote my site, only let you know I have dealt with these issues as well and explored them a lot. God bless you.